Most adults will pause to take stock of their life at regular intervals. One of the most common outcomes of such reflection is an inventory of our personal habits.
We sort them using value judgments. Bad habits are those that we would like to lose — forever — for whatever reason.
Good habits are those that we perceive as adding value to our lives.
It’s actually unfortunate that habits often hold a negative connotation. This is likely due to the fact that bad habits are hard to break, and can often be associated with a kind of self-loathing. However good habits are a significant source of personal fulfillment and confidence.
A really successful strategy to breaking bad habits is to replace the thing you want to lose, with activities toward a goal that you want to achieve.
In fact, let’s start with a simple re-framing — it’s not about breaking bad habits, it’s about developing good ones.
Switch off and tune in.
When we take stock of our habits, it tends to be the conscious ones that we identify and focus on.
The first thing to understand in rebuilding your posture is that you have to unwind a set of unconscious habits.
The way that we hold ourselves throughout the day, and sit at our computer, is the result of a lifetime of habitual behavior. Many of us are not connected in with our posture, and this is exacerbated by stress and deadlines — where our focus is on completing a task rather than how our body feels. Stress itself can be associated with a range of postural bad habits, typically a tightening through the shoulders, neck and abdominal muscles.
The first positive habit you need to adopt is simply taking a regular break. This might sound easy, but for most of us it actually isn’t.
To reconnect with our posture, and build awareness around how we sit and stand, you need to take a break from that urgent task and take your awareness into your body.
Developing a habit where breaks become an opportunity to attend to your body as well as clear your mind can help you feel a lot less tired at the end of the day.
The more you do this, the more physical insights you will attain. Start to turn on your awareness to how your body carries the stress of a deadline, or the anxiety of an uncompleted task, and how this influences your posture.